why i do it for me, not you

You might think I make that extra effort for you...

...that I style my hair for you.
...that I shave my legs for you.
...that I dress for you.
...that I pick out my jewelry for you.
...that I manicure my nails for you.

But the truth is this - I do those things for me...for how confident and wonderful and special I feel as a result of that effort. If you like it, too...well, that's a bonus. If you don't like it - or don't get to see it because you have to cancel our date - well, that's your loss.

Where I am: home
What I'm reading: (nothing at the moment)