Wednesday, February 03, 2016

lessons learned in thriving - january

(inspired by Emily P. Freeman's monthly reflections)

If I ask God to help make better choices, He will. I just have to be paying attention...and willing to let His direction lead me. That last part is especially important!

Comparison is a bad thing...but not as bad and not as powerful when I can recognize that temptation and make an active effort to move past it.

Something else to move past? The guilt and lament over how friendships evolve as life changes and evolves.

This might be a year when I don't do much crafting outside of scrapbooking and cardmaking. I'm not sure yet. Right now, I'm so in the flow with my scrapbooking - a super intense flow - and it feels awesome to be getting so much done.

I can only be so frustrated with my weight and health before there's nothing left to do but do something about it. That will definitely mean eating fewer sweets - lots fewer sweets! - and I know that will be difficult.

But I also know that thriving - living fully and intentionally - requires choosing better.

Sunday, November 08, 2015

this week was good because...

...after a week of feeling unsettled, I had the amazing opportunity to attend the women's retreat that my church hosted over the weekend. Three days of worship, fellowship, and learning was a true blessing to my heart, and I am praying (intensely) that the lessons learned this weekend are ones my heart can hold onto as a new week begins.

What made your week good?

Sunday, October 11, 2015

this week was good because...

...Wildcat Guy and I went on vacation to celebrate our second anniversary, and it was truly delightful. Every day had something new and wonderful, and I am so grateful that we had the opportunity to take a week away for ourselves. (Stories and photos to follow!)

What made your week good?

Sunday, September 27, 2015

this week was good because... hectic and quirky and stressful as this week was, I found hints of humor, grace and blessings scattered throughout. Take this picture, for example - this was everything we purchased at the grocery store on Sunday for our week...well, almost everything. The loaf of bread at the end of the line on the left didn't fit in the picture. This is an absurd combination, right? What you don't see is the awesome assortment of food our fridge and cupboard are stocked with from recent weeks of CSA...recent weeks that, yes, I will have highlights on soon. Because of that assortment, though, we just needed a few essentials. We added to that some traveling snacks for our upcoming vacation, and then, just for fun, we made our own six-pack of adult beverages.

This was my week - taking care of the essentials, adding in some vacation planning, and then, just for fun, enjoying life in random little places. At the end, I am happy to say, simply, that I made it through.

What made your week good?

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

csa eats: weeks six and seven

Wow, time has flown by in recent weeks. Nonetheless, I couldn't pass up the opportunity to continue sharing our adventures in CSA.

In week six, there were some items I was excited about, and some items that gave me pause. The bag included a super cute little watermelon, more kale, chives, Hungarian wax peppers, tomatoes, arugula and lovage.

The arugula made a really nice mix-in for our chef salads, and the chives became a key ingredient in a batch of easy-to-make white cheddar and chive drop biscuits. I can't say enough about how wonderful it is to be having such delicious salads this summer, and I was extra happy to have some fresh biscuits on the side.

A couple of weeks back, we'd received a head of cabbage in our bag, but I hadn't really done anything with it. But then, knowing we would be having a cookout with some friends, I decided to try my hand at truly homemade cole slaw (v. my previous efforts that focused more on the dressing, but started with a bagged veggie mix).

I was so proud of how it turned out! The recipe from Barbara Kafka included a blend of cabbage, carrots, green bell pepper and red onion; and I was excited to be able to use the fresh lovage from our bag in place of the celery seed that the recipe called for. This was very yummy, and so easy that I will definitely use it again in the future.

This pasta dish was a bit of an experiment for me. With all those tomatoes, I really wanted to make a tomato sauce; but the summer heat was in full effect at the time, so having a sauce simmering on the stove for a while didn't sound very appealing.

So Smitten Kitchen's recipe for a raw tomato sauce piqued my interest. I ended up using it as the base for a green pepper and Italian sausage topping for cheese tortellini, and while it isn't my favorite sauce, it was good enough to be worth the attempt.

Week seven was another mixed bag, with corn on the cob, (more) tomatoes, turnips, plums of some kind, (more) kale, and red potatoes. At this point, I should go on the record and admit that I am not a fan of kale. I'd tried it a long time ago, and don't remember liking it much...but with all the hype in recent years around kale, getting it not once, not twice, but three different times in our CSA bags was an opportunity to try it again.

So try it I did. I took a bite of one leaf, and promptly rinsed my mouth out with water. It is just not for me. That meant finding homes for these beautiful bouquets of fresh kale with a couple of colleagues who would love the kale as it should be loved.

Something that was for me was using an onion from week five, tomatoes from one of these weeks, and the peppers from week six to make a fresh pico de gallo to top off our soft tacos. Mmm, mmm. I was very pleased with how that turned out, and am looking forward to making some more of it.

Even with the occasional miss on a bag ingredient or recipe, this is still such a wonderful experience. I continue to be grateful that we decided to subscribe to this.

Sunday, September 13, 2015

this week was good because...

...I remembered to show myself grace and patience during a week of feeling behind, scattered and unaccomplished. I also had the confidence to speak up about the ideas I have for my professional responsibilities expanding and the perspective to consider the big picture for my team.

...fall arrived in lovely ways - everything from cooler weather to piles of pumpkins at the grocery store. I'm not quite ready, mentally, to be done with summer; but the hints of fall are making the transition a little smoother to ease into.

What made your week good?

Sunday, August 23, 2015

this week was good because...

...the newest issue of a favorite magazine. This magazine really inspires me creatively, and nurtures me spiritually; so it's always a joy to find it at the store. However, this issue ended up being more impactful than normal, thanks to an article about building and leading successful Bible studies.

I had recently been invited to assist with an upcoming Bible study at church, and just a few hours prior to reading this article, I accepted the invitation. My head was hesitant, because I don't necessarily feel like I'm wise enough to play such a role; yet my heart had responded very strongly to the opportunity to become more involved in the women's ministry. So to find an article with tips and best practices felt like an affirmation of my choice and encouragement for my journey.

...after a couple of intense weeks at work, I took Friday afternoon off, with the simple intention to spoil myself. That included a delightful pedicure, a tasty venti iced chai latte, and seven hours of scrapbooking at the local store. I am so glad that I gave myself this gift of soul refreshing, spirit soothing time.

...we can actually see the shelves and back wall of our refrigerator! For the past couple of weeks, between our CSA bags and my recipe selections, our fridge had been packed full of fresh produce, leftovers, and more. It was a little absurd! Granted, there was plenty of eating well as a result; but it's nice not to have to play puzzle just to get something out of the fridge.

What made your week good?